Friday, March 28, 2014

Where the $#@ has Random Girl Been?!!

Random Girl! Where the f*#@ have you been?!! -- SO... I can't believe that I've actually gone this long without really writing anything in my blog. It's stupid because I think that so often over the past couple of years, writing in this blog has kept me a little more sane. And I just haven't done it in so long... So I opted for insanity? Hmmm sounds about right

But no seriously where the hell have you been? -- Well first of all there have been a lot of you who've sent me a lot of concerned emails - hoping I wasn't in jail or back in prison or perhaps something worse (like sober... lol just kidding.... sort of). I thank those of you for your concern.... that's pretty cool.

Well actually I'm still living in Portland, OR. I've currently got a warrant out for my arrest (because I'm an idiot), I'm STILL unemployed, and still with Hercules who, from this point on I'm going to refer to as "Jeff" because his is just to uncommon of a name and I'd like to at least TRY to maintain a certain level of anonymity. (And this world's too small as it is)

So anyway, Jeff and I are still together... barely..... fucking one thing I can say about meth is that no matter WHO I've been in a relationship with, if we were/are using, the relationship has NOT gone smoothly. And it's been so long since I've been in a relationship WITHOUT drugs involved - God have I ever been? There's always been SOME sort of drugs or at the very least, alcohol involved. I think the last time I was in a relationship that didn't involve a substantial amount of drugs or alcohol was when I was 17/18 and I dated this guy who was in the Air Force and kind of had his shit together, and was hard working and just was an overall "good guy" (Cheers to you Than, wherever you are these days).... Did that last? Of course not! Why? Because I thought he was BORING!! (not enough drugs and/or drama since apparently that's what I seem to go for)

So, long story short, Jeff and I sure do fight a lot. And I'll leave it at that. I will however say that when he and I are getting along (which is also a lot somehow) we REALLY get along. He is somebody that at times I could totally picture myself spending the rest of my life with. Of course he's a fucking heroin addict - cuz I don't like to make it easy on myself you know. Nah, I can't really talk because what's the difference between one addiction or another. Can I say one is ok and one is not. Not really without being a hypocrite. So it is what it is. At least he just smokes the shit as opposed to slamming it... I didn't know that there was a difference between heroin addicts who smoked the shit and ones who were junkies until now. Smokers - from what I've seen - at least tend to be a little more on the sane side... a little less on the willing-to-do-ANYTHING-whether-it-be-cheat-steal-rob-kill-or-prostitute-myself side... Ok... that is enough writing for tonight. I'm REALLY going to start blogging regularly again. I can't believe I went THIS long. Once again I am grateful to everyone who was concerned about me. It's nice to know that people give a shit... even if they're strangers who live hundreds or thousands of miles away and who I've never met. I'll take what I can get LOL. Later :)

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